Love. Relationships.

Sometimes love seems so amazing. 

It's like how 2 people out of a huge population can come together.

But then again,

how many people these days really cherish the r/s and brave through the storms together?

Quarrels?? It's inevitable.

Some people think that no quarrels is good, of cos not agreeing that too many quarrels are good.

But if we really sit down and think through it... who do we usually quarrel with??

Your dad, your mum, your siblings, your relatives, your close friends. . .

How often do you have arguments/ disputes w a stranger or someone whom you just know??

& it boils down to the point that it's naive to hear people say they ain't suited for the other cos they quarrel.

C'mon there are bound to be differences between 2 people.

No matter how good or close you are, even if the relationship is right,  differences surfaces.

The reality is that we quarrel more w our close ones cos we interact more with them.

It's totally natural. The issue then is to identify the differences & talk through them 

so that they don't distance you or kill the r/s.

It takes much effort and of cos two parties to work on it.

Understanding where the other person is coming from, who that person is and 

how much he/she means to you changes everything.

No matter how grave the matter is, 

if true love exists and when he/she is willing to take the effort

, he/she will definitely understand where you're coming from.

When the differences are known, that's when you can negotiate and compromise on them until you found a common ground that works for both.

True love never changes. 

It always lasts, it always will.

How can you stop caring for a person you once told "iloveyou" to everyday.

It's tantamount to acknowledging yourself as an orphan after years with your parents.

How is that even possible??

Just some random thoughts xx